Well, thanks for clearing that up, Gabe. Shouldn't have been quick to take it so personally. I'm just as guilty (if not more so) than my cronies more often than not, so it seemed like a good inference.
As for UYMFA needing to be open or closed, I don't really care. I understand why it's there, and for the most part, the posts are vague enough to keep anything from really flaring up. I personally don't utilize it since I have no qualms saying this to folks directly (Gabe, you can certainly vouch for this). But if some folks need it to vent, there's no reason to take it down. And tensions are really only going to get to a boiling point when the posts in there are obviously directed toward a specific individual who then is alerted to that fact.