Well I've never even met the band so.. I'd say getting pulled up once is a lifetime experience. More than once I don't really understand, I guess because Bono remembers, but hey more power to you lol.
I also agree with not always having to be on the rail this tour. I saw my 2 San Jose shows from a few rows back from like the middle of the stage (near red zone) and it was great. I felt super close to the band and I was also able to see everything on the amazing screen. I'd like to even do seats from far back too. In my old age I have no desire to line up - the spots I got on GA were great and I waltzed in at like 7:30. There were even a few rail spots left but I wanted to see more than their shoes
I only tried once. I was 17 ( and had been taking lessons for a few years with the far away day dream of getting up) it was Halloween, so I dressed in my costume, met B and he asked me to do it in Tampa, which fortunately I was going to. Even with it pre set up by him it was still difficult, had to get my spot on the railing had to get his attention at the right time, etc.
I never in my wildest dreams thought I would be the girl that was pulled up for a slow dance song. That was never a dream of mine, Mysterious Ways was my song. I really never even allowed myself to fantasize about being a Bad/WOWY girl. I I just didn't think I was that person. My belly dance was indeed once in a lifetime and fantastic and can never be replaced. Unfortunately it was in an era when there's not a lot of cameras and vids.
The absolute stunned shock to be up again during a slow song? I cannot even explain it . very much different and yet still once in a lifetime feeling. Because in those moments when its not set up, (I'm sure Miro would agree) hes in the moment with the crowd and having a moment with the person he chooses. Feeding off your energy, and giving it back to each other.
Does he remember people, certainly. is that why ppl get up a few times? I'd say yes, and no. It has so much to do with the energy that you're giving to him , as much as the energy he's giving to you. So when anyone wonders why certain ppl are multiple times, that's why. Amp, for instance, never once takes out a cell phone at the show, and rocks out the entire time feeding off of the bands energy and giving it right back to them. that's why Bono loves him, Dan, now Mark, etc. Hope that makes sense. It's hard to describe over interwebs, lol
.... And that's not to say we wouldn't all take pictures or pull out cell phones for photos if we're in the stands or towards the back . just saying when you're on the railing it's kind of a different thing.
I saw you at SJ1 Sicy! Said hi during show!